Dear Single: Do not let a kiss fool you and a fool kiss you.

Dear Single

I will be taking time out of my writing schedule to address matters that I believe will be of importance to you.  My intention is not to hurt you but to counsel you on matters concerning life and living it.

I admit that my words can be bitter sometimes but you know, I have learned in life that the bitter pills have healing virtues in them. So don’t be bothered. Just listen and learn.

Today, I want to address a very important subject that is so prevalent among young people. As you grow, one important feature of your body and its makeup is your emotions. These emotions are built into our system by God himself. As you get older the emotions also get stronger and more intense.

Then comes the challenge. It will come to a time in your life when pressure mounts on you to satisfy your emotions. Unfortunately for all of us, the society we live in today has made matters worse. The windows to your emotions have skyrocketed to the point that you are almost confused.

One of the ‘safest’ avenues that young people have found to fulfill their emotional needs is kissing. Today, you find most Christian teens and youths either debating or justifying kissing.

Let me be frank with you. I can tell you without blinking that any young lady or gentleman that are obsessed with kissing, is just looking for an avenue to fulfill his or her own desires.

Dear Single: Do not let a kiss fool you and a fool kiss you.

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Also, young people use kissing as an avenue of parting themselves at the back.  They will say things like; It is better than fornication, let’s be doing this one. Once we are not having sex, that’s okay.

Most people have bought into this lie and have wounded themselves emotionally.

Now listen to me carefully.  One thing you have to know is that kissing has family members. Anybody that is involved in kissing will by all means open the door for her other ‘relatives’ to come in.

What are some of the family members of kissing? They include touching, smooching, caressing, petting, and so on.

Any young person who refuses to stop kissing will eventually be guilty of the rest. It’s just a matter of time.  Also, let it be known to you that kissing is not an expression of love. Do not let a kiss ever fool you to think that you are in love. You must be joking!

My desire for you is that you understand the implications of engaging in things that bring regret your way tomorrow. If you are busy kissing as a single, which mouth are you preserving for your would-be spouse tomorrow?

Dear young man, don’t let her smooth lips make you think you have found love. Love is not in the smoothness of the lips. Don’t let a fool kiss you. Her lips may be smooth but her character may be very rough.

Dear Single: Do not let a kiss fool you and a fool kiss you.

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Dear young ladies, you are the ones who are most affected when it comes to issues of this nature. The consequence of one kiss can open the door to too many things you may not be able to handle. Because you are more emotional than men, you are the ones who mostly fall into these traps.

He who is always passionate about your lips will only use you and leave you.  Your life is worth more than the shape of your lips.

So, what should you begin to do?

Life is worth more than the flatter of the heart. To put an end to this in your life, you have to direct your energy into doing things that will improve your life.

Another thing you should also do is to have boundaries. Without boundaries, you will always be making silly mistakes that only leave you regretting.  A young lady should know where she should not be at a certain time of the day. A young lady serious about her future should know whom to associate with and who not to associate with.

Most importantly, guard your heart with all diligence. Do you know why? Out of it flows the issues of life. Your heart is your life. He who is toiling with your heart is toiling with your life.

Until I come your way again, do not let a kiss fool you and a fool kiss you. Be patient. When you finally marry, you will definitely kiss and it will be a holy Kiss.

For the love of God, society, and young people

Blessings

Your brother in Christ,

Rev Seth Seth Kunkpe

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