Saving Your Marriage before it Starts. Rev Seth Kunkpe

Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts

The work of marriage needs to be properly explained to the younger generation or else calamity will be the order of the day.

When most young people think of marriage, all they fantasize about is emotions and the beauty of their weddings.I wonder why someone will not sit them down and tell them the true meaning of marriage. Well, that’s why I am writing this piece.

After the butterflies in your tummy are gone, what stays in the marriage is the character you have built over the years. You can choose not to believe this, but marriage will open your eyes! lol

Marriage by definition is WORK. That is to say what makes marriage pleasant to the soul and soothing to the heart is the amount of work you are willing to INVEST (that is the word) into it.

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Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts

What then can you do to save your marriage before it starts?

The first thing I will recommend is to consciously build your character. I tell young people that it is character that marries. For that matter, build the character traits you believe are necessary for your marriage today!

For instance, no matter how beautiful or handsome you are, you will need the VIRTUES OF PATIENCE, TOLERANCE AND FORGIVENESS far more than beauty and handsomeness in your marriage.

So, any young man or woman who wants peace in his life will spend his energy developing his habits and character.

Another worthwhile strategy to save your marriage before you start it is to go for KNOWLEDGE. Instead of always touching one another at places that are sensitive and arousing emotions untimely, why don’t you divert that energy to read a bit about marriage?

Just this simple habit can save you a lot of headaches in marriage. Read and listen to teachings on marriage, parenting, childbearing etc.

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Another one is to have the discipline to WAIT.

Marriage is a marathon, so your waiting is key to enjoying the marriage. There are so many things to delay. There are so many pleasures to delay so you can obtain the treasure in marriage. Waiting can even save you from marrying wrongly or marrying with a lot of heartaches.

The work of marriage is more than the flatter of the heart so be careful how you approach it. Be not wise in your own Eyes!!

For the love of God, Society and Young People.

Blessings.

Rev. Seth Agbeli Kunkpe

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